I know, you know the best way to make your girlfriend, or the girl you're into, happy since you know her better than anyone. But, there are some generic things, if we look past the specifics that you probably forget, in your day to day life, to put a smile upon her face. They could be as inane as taking her dog to the vet with her or bringing her coffee in bed, but they're important for sure. What would you really give for that smile on her face?
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Here are 5 simple things you've probably looked past, that bring a genuine smile on her face. Thank us later?
Ask Her About Her Day
While I am sure she does this all the time, how often do you ask her? If you do it often enough, you're doing well! But if you seldom forget to ask her how her day was, and go on about yours, maybe you should make more of an effort? Just by showing interest in her day will make it even better and less stressful for her. You can either send her a text in the middle of her day asking how it's going or ask her how it was, when it gets over. Either way, she'll appreciate the effort!
Be Kind When She's PMS'ing
Yes, the premenstrual syndrome is real and it's really bad for some women, due to bodily hormonal changes and they get moody and emotional. Not all women experience mood swings but most do and if yours seems to have these mood swings too, recognise them and be gentle and kind! She'll appreciate nothing more than the man she's with, to understand her condition during that time. The body craves chocolates during the PMS phase, so maybe take her out for dessert or give her a nice foot rub? And guys, don't equate all her moods to the PMS and be callous about it!
Offer Your Help Often
I know you do that whenever you can, but you really have to gauge where she's struggling sometimes and offer your help for things she might not even tell you about. For instance, if she's talking about her day, then listen carefully and figure out where she's falling short on daily chores. She may have everything sorted and might just be sharing her frustrations, but offer your help and see if it can lighten her burden a bit. There is no harm in being attentive and offering your help!
Make Her Friends Feel Special
Women like it if you get involved in their lives and acknowledge most things about it. For instance, treating her friends with kindness and respect is something that will definitely put a smile upon her face. It's something about how attentive you are towards her and her life which she will appreciate a lot, and small gestures like helping her friends out or hanging out with her and her friends definitely makes her happy. So do it as often as you can.
Call Her Beautiful
Sometimes, the word beautiful is either too underplayed or overplayed but when you call someone beautiful, it not only sounds like you're praising their outward beauty, but also telling them how beautiful they are as a person. So instead of calling her cute or pretty or hot, try using the word beautiful often. It has a bigger impact than any other adjective! It will make her feel special for sure.
Maybe you buy her nice things or take her out for fancy dinners and make her feel special. Maybe you secretly like to do anything in your power to make her face light up, but these five things are very fundamental in making any girl smile and being grateful for knowing a man like you!
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